It is always time to do new things, to branch out and see what the world has to offer. The spark of learning is in everything we do and this is important to recognise. With recognition you can plan your events to a higher degree. When you get that feeling of "I’ve been through this so many times" you can realise that it is because you have not learnt your lesson in this area. This is when you can begin to search for the reason why and start building towards growing in this aspect of your life. This can help to ease the pain, as you know that once you can grow past this stage you will not go through exactly the same thing just with different faces.
It does not mean the whole situation is your fault, that you are to blame, it means that certain behaviour can lead you to that dark alley and with learning you can avoid returning to this place. Walking away before you get there as you recognise the events leading up to the negative result. Sometimes it is only a small deed that takes you there and it is easy to miss.
Look inside yourself and the answers shall appear
© Joanne E Cooke